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Issues in Child Abuse Prevention
Number 2 July 1994
Domestic Violence as a Form of Child Abuse: Identification and Prevention
Marianne James
Senior Research Officer
Australian Institute of Criminology
CONTENTS
- The Issue
- Prevalence
Child Witnesses in Domestic Violence
Child Victims of Domestic Violence
- The Effects of Domestic Violence on Children
Infants
Toddlers
Pre-Schoolers
Primary School Age
Adolescents
Summary
Children's Coping Abilities
- Prevention
- Conclusion
- Bibliography
THE ISSUE
Child abuse and domestic violence are not new social problems, nor are
they haphazard or deviant activities. Both are considered an accepted
part of our culture. However, while domestic violence is now politically
recognised as one of the most entrenched and pervasive forms of violence
in our society today, child abuse issues have yet to receive the same
degree of attention. This is despite the fact that every year in Australia,
thousands of children, as well as women, suffer physically, psychologically
and sexually as a result of acts of violence against them in the home.
Not surprisingly, these issues have essentially been regarded as a private
matter. This, together with the fact that the family has traditionally
been regarded as a source of love and support, has led to an element of
denial at both a community level and an individual level. However, the
family, as the most important institution within our society, is extremely
complex. It is both an agency of social control and an agency of social
support, and that its internal dynamics can have both positive and negative
effects on relationships.
One negative aspect of family life is the effect of domestic violence
on children, either as witnesses to, or victims of, the conflict. The
increasing recognition of this specific aspect of domestic violence owes
much to the work of the women's refuge movement. It was through the reports
of refuge workers that people first became aware that children could be
severely traumatised by witnessing domestic violence and, indeed, that
the children may also be victims of this violence. Concern has also been
expressed by health and welfare professionals, who have felt the frustration
of not being able to intervene legally to protect child witnesses from
extreme incidents of domestic violence, unless there was also evidence
of child abuse.
In Australia, there has been an historical separation of domestic violence
and child protection issues. Domestic violence was brought out into the
open by the women's movement in the late 1970s, and has commonly been
applied to various forms of violent and abusive behaviour which occur
in a marriage or de facto relationship. At an institutional level, domestic
violence has been regarded as a matter for the police, courts, women's
refuges and other women's support services. In contrast, child abuse refers
to the physical, sexual or psychological damage caused to the child by
the abusive behaviour of others, or the failure of others to protect a
child from such damage and has been more of a health and welfare issue.
Child protection has therefore involved an additional group of people
as well as additional legislation.
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PREVALENCE
It is difficult to establish with any accuracy the extent of domestic
violence. This is primarily the result of two factors. The first is that
very little official data has been collected, while the second is the
low rates of reporting by those affected. In fact, some estimate that
only one in ten report, whilst those who work in refuges for women subjected
to violence would place that proportion much lower at one in 50 or one
in 100. (These reporting rates were presented informally at the Second
National Conference on Violence held in Canberra in 1993 as cited in Easteal
1994).
This reluctance to report incidents to others, especially authorities,
stems from a concern to avoid the legal consequences of criminal behaviour
as well as the guilt and shame usually associated with the experience.
In many relationships, there are also powerful feelings of denial, together
with a minimisation of the true nature of the abuse (Queensland Domestic
Violence Task Force 1988). However, by piecing together various statistics,
some idea of the seriousness of the problem can be gleaned.
During the month of November 1993, there were over 2200 calls to the
New South Wales Police that related to domestic violence, and in the same
month in Victoria about 1200 sought assistance from the police in relation
to violence within the home (Easteal 1994). From August 1987 to August
1988, women's refuges accommodated approximately 11,000 women and children,
and turned away approximately 23,000 because of lack of space (NSW Domestic
Violence Committee 1991). In the Australian Capital Territory, out of
a population of 100,000 women, about 3,000 (3 per cent) contact the Domestic
Violence Crisis Service every year and the police call-outs to such incidents
number more than one thousand (Mugford et al. 1993). However, in the United
States, Canada and the United Kingdom (Jaffe et al. 1990, MacLeod 1987,
Dobash and Dobash 1979) it has been estimated that as many as ten per
cent of all women are victims of domestic violence.
Child Witnesses to Domestic Violence
In Queensland, 88 per cent (580) of the 856 respondents to the phone-in
conducted by the Queensland Domestic Violence Task Force reported the
presence of dependent children in the household during the course of the
violent relationship. Ninety per cent of these respondents reported that
the children had witnessed the domestic violence, and a further 74 per
cent of these respondents had spoken with their children about the violence
(Queensland Domestic Violence Task Force 1988). In Western Australia,
the Domestic Violence Task Force found that 84 per cent of the 420 respondents
to a newspaper survey had children living in the same household as the
abusive partner. In a phone-in conducted at the same time, almost 87 per
cent of the 297 respondents with children reported that their children
had witnessed them being abused (WA Domestic Violence Task Force 1986).
The figures illustrating a high incidence of child witnesses to domestic
violence are reinforced by Walker (1984) who also reported that 87 per
cent of children were aware of the violence between adult partners, while
Dobash and Dobash (1984) in a study of 314 first, worst and last attacks
of violence recalled by victims, found that 58 per cent of the attacks
took place in front of the children. Sinclair's research (1985) based
on clinical experience has suggested that if children are in a violent
family, 80 per cent of them will witness an episode of wife assault. What
they witness may range from a fleeting moment of abusive language to a
homicide (Bowker, Arbittel and McFerron 1988).
A review of Victoria's domestic violence legislation between 1987 and
1990 has also shown some alarming results. For instance, during 1989-
90, of the 3003 violent domestic incidents reported to the police, 92
involved the threat or use of a gun. Sixty-five per cent of these cases
were witnessed by children under the age of 5, and 35 per cent were witnessed
by children aged between 5 and 9. A further 84 incidents involved the
use of a weapon (usually a knife) where 79 per cent were witnessed by
children under 5, and 25 per cent were witnessed by children between the
ages of 5 and 9. Children under the age of 5 were also present at more
than two-thirds of domestic disputes in which property was damaged. Over
the three-year-period, an analysis of domestic disputes dealt with by
the Magistrate's Court shows that children were assaulted or molested
in 25 per cent of domestic disputes; and in 4 per cent of cases children
were held in unlawful custody by the perpetrator (Wearing 1992).
Child Victims of Domestic Violence
Some children who witness domestic violence are also victims of the abusive
behaviour. Studies have shown an overlap between violence towards women
and violence towards children of at least 40 per cent (Straus, Gelles
and Steinmetz 1980; Hughes 1988). The Queensland Domestic Violence Task
Force (1988) phone-in revealed that, of the 88 per cent (580) of respondents
who reported the presence of dependent children, 68 per cent (392) said
that their children had also suffered at the hands of the perpetrator
of domestic violence. Of these, 68 per cent reported their children being
physically abused, 70 per cent reported emotional abuse, and 8 per cent
reported sexual abuse. Research in the United States has also shown that
the rate of child abuse and neglect of children in violent homes has been
found to be fifteen times greater than the national average (Peled and
Davis 1992). In a New Zealand study, Church (1984) stated that half of
the children surveyed had to be protected by their mother during the confrontation.
Significantly only 6 per cent (23) of the respondents with abused children
(392) in the Queensland Domestic Violence Task Force Report contacted
the Department of Family Services. This is similar to research conducted
by Roy (1977) who stated that 95 per cent of her sample of adult family
violence victims did not report the husband to the authorities for child
abuse. Reasons cited for this ranged from fear of reprisals to counter
charges by the husband.
Walker (1987) concludes as a consequence of her research with a sample
of 453 abused women that they were eight times more likely to hurt their
children while they were living in a violent relationship, than when they
were safe from violence. This is supported by Straus, Gelles and Steinmetz
(1980) who found that mothers and fathers in violent marriages are both
more likely than their counterparts in non-violent marriages to be child
abusing parents.
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THE EFFECTS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ON CHILDREN
There is now a small, slowly emerging literature on the effects of witnessing
violence on children's psychological development. Initially the literature
was limited to clinical descriptions of children's behav ioural and emotional
problems elicited primarily from assessment of children in women's shelters.
These assessments used a standardised checklist which measures internalising
problems (depression, somatic or physiological complaints, anxiety and
withdrawal) and externalising problems (disobedience, destructiveness
and aggression). Recent studies have improved methodologically by including
appropriate comparison groups and additional standardised measures, and
by examining a wider range of children's dysfunctional and adaptive behaviour.
These studies represent beginning efforts to document the effects domestic
violence has on children's behaviour, their cognitive and social problem-solving
abilities, as well as their coping and emotional functioning. A discussion
of this literature in terms of age, stage of development and gender is
outlined below.
Infants
Infants, by definition, are the most limited of all children in their
cog- nitive abilities and resources for adaptation. In terms of behaviour,
however, infants who witness spousal violence are often characterised
by poor health, poor sleeping habits and excessive screaming (Jaffe et
al. 1990). It is also possible that they may suffer serious, unintended
consequences when their basic needs for attachment to their mother may
be significantly disrupted. Routines around sleeping and feeding often
become far from normal. A mother living in fear of her husband may be
unable to handle the stressful demands of an infant. Clearly, any rejection
from lack of availability to their principal caretaker, which is likely
to continue for the duration of the domestic violence, would be felt by
the child and could have long-term effects in the form of emotional deprivation
(Hart and Brassard 1987).
Developmental evidence suggests that children begin to learn the importance
of emotions for communication and regulation early in the first year of
life. They look for cues in their principal caregiver in order to recognise
the appropriate emotion. They are therefore aware of others negative emotions
and mirror these in their own responses (Cummings et al. 1981).
Toddlers
By the second year of life, children are developing basic attempts to
relate causes to emotional expressions (Jaffe et al. 1990). A research
study (Cummings et al. 1981) assessed toddlers' reactions to naturally
occurring and simulated expressions of anger and affection by others in
the family. It was found that the expressions of anger caused distress
in the young children. This distress became even more appar- ent when
verbal expressions were accompanied by the physical attack of another
family member. They also found that repeated exposure to anger between
their parents increased the likelihood of these stress reactions in the
children, and as a result the children made more efforts to become actively
involved in the conflict. Based on these initial data, the researchers
hypothesised that exposure to harsh emotions threatens children's sense
of security in relation to their social environment.
In a second study Cummings et al. (1985) targeted children in their third
year of life. They found that these children readily distinguished between
warmth and anger, and that the children responded to angry adult interactions
with significantly greater displays of distress and subsequent increases
in aggression with their peers. When the children were exposed a second
time to negative emotional exchanges a month later, the researchers found
even higher levels of distress and aggressive behaviour. Interestingly,
boys showed more aggressive behaviour than girls following the simulation,
whereas girls showed more distress than boys during the simulation.
The short-term, immediate effects of domestic violence on toddlers can
often be portrayed by behavioural problems such as frequent illness, severe
shyness, low self-esteem, and trouble in daycare as well as social problems
such as hitting, biting or being argumentative (Blanchard et al. 1992).
Generally, the behaviour of boys tends to be externalised, while the behaviour
of girls tends to be internalised. For instance, Carlson (1984) describes
girls as having an increasing assortment of physiological symptoms and
being more likely than boys to become withdrawn, passive, clinging and
anxious.
Pre-Schoolers
In a third study, this time on children aged 4 and 5, Cummings et al.
(1987) recorded similar distress reactions as previously noted on the
younger age groups. In addition, the researchers were able to identify
the following three types of behavioural reactions to adult arguments.
Forty-six per cent of the children displayed negative emotions during
the time that the anger was being acted out, but afterwards they reported
feeling sad and wanting to intervene. Seventeen per cent showed no evidence
of emotion, but later reported that they were angry. Over a third showed
high emotional feelings (both positive and negative) during the arguments.
Later, this latter group reported feeling happy, but they were also the
most likely to become physically and verbally aggressive with their peers.
It appears from this study that children's reactions to adult arguments
and anger vary considerably, ranging from strong displays of emotional
distress to very hidden emotional reactions. Also, the type of immediate
reaction shown by each child was found to be associated with his or her
own degree of anger, sadness, or aggression following the violent incident.
Davis and Carlson (1987) found that, through clinical testing of 77 children,
those who displayed their reactions aggressively were pre-school boys.
This same group of boys also demonstrated a higher lever of somatic complaints,
with twice as many pre-school boys as girls showing their emotional difficulties
through such symptoms. On the basis of this study, pre-school boys had
the highest rating for aggressive and somatic difficulties of any group
in terms of age and gender. In another comprehensive study (Hughes 1988),
using reports obtained from mothers and children, abused and non-abused
child witnesses to domestic violence were compared to other children from
a similar economic background on measures of self-esteem, anxiety, depression
and behavioural problems, using reports obtained from mothers and children.
Consistent with previous studies, results indicated much higher distress
levels in the children who had been both witnesses and victims than in
the comparison group, with the non-abused witness children's scores falling
somewhere between the two. Although Hughes did not perform any analysis
by gender, the results of this study are in partial agreement with those
of Davis and Carlson in that, on examination of the behavioural problem
scores, it was revealed that the pre-school group had the highest rates
of any group.
Children of this age interpret most events in relation to self. They
see themselves as the cause of the anger. They do not have the cognitive
competence to take into account the whole situation. Placing blame for
adult anger on oneself, therefore, is a developmentally defined common
occurrence for preschoolers (Jaffe et al. 1990). There is also a relationship
between the anxiety levels of this age-group and the mother's own anxiety
levels. In fact, Hughes (1986) has suggested that shelter children, may
particularly associate their own feelings very closely with their mother,
so that as the mother's anxiety level rises and falls, so does their own.
It was also observed by deLange (1986) that exposure to domestic violence
may affect pre-school age children's social-cognitive developmental competence;
they were often socially isolated from their peers and did not relate
to the activities or interests of their age group and they had some problems
relating to adults.
Primary School Age
By the time children reach school age, they look to their parents as
significant role models. Both boys and girls who witness domestic violence
quickly learn that violence is an appropriate way of resolving conflict
in human relationships (Jaffe et al. 1990). They are more able to express
their fears and anxieties regarding their parents' behaviour. Like pre-schoolers,
many feel partially responsible as participants in the family conflicts,
and sex differences consistent with traditional sex-role stereotypes are
likely to manifest themselves at this age (Hilberman and Munson 1978).
Hughes (1986) found that children of this age often had difficulties with
school work, including poor academic performance, not wanting to go to
school, and difficulties in concentration. Similarly, McKay (1987, cited
in Jaffe et al. 1990) described such children as constantly fighting with
peers, rebelling against adult instruction and authority, and being unwilling
to do school work. In terms of gender, Davis and Carlson (1987) observed
that girls in this age group showed high levels of both aggression and
depression on the clinical behaviour checklist and, in fact, they had
the highest scores for problems compared with the other groups.
Studies of both boys and girls in this age group which have compared
children living in refuges with community control groups matched on the
basis of socio-economic status (Wolfe et al. 1986; Jaffe et al. 1986;
Christopoulos et al. 1987) have tended to confirm that children from domestic
violence family backgrounds had significantly more behavioural problems
and lower social competence than children from non-violent backgrounds.
The research conducted by Wolfe et al. (1986) found that 35 per cent of
boys and 20 per cent of girls fell within the clinical range of behavioural
problems, with boys tending to have more elevated scores than girls. The
pattern was replicated by Jaffe et al. (1986) who confirmed that girls
tended to show more internalising than external- ising problems (depression,
anxiety and withdrawal), while boys showed both internalising and externalising
problems (increased activity levels and aggression). However, Christopoulos
et al. (1987) found that, while children from domestic violence backgrounds
had significantly more behavioural problems than the control group, and
there were no differences in terms of gender, both boys and girls had
increased internalising problems.
An Australian study has compared the psychological functioning of 22
children aged from 6 to 11 years who came from violent backgrounds against
a matched group of children who had no history of domestic violence (Mathias
et al. 1995 in press). This research found that more than half of the
group who had been exposed to violence showed borderline to severe levels
of behaviour problems; and had below average adaptive skills whilst over
40 per cent had reading ages over a year below their chronological ages;
and moderately high to high levels of anxiety were evident in only 15
per cent of children. These children also chose significantly more assertive
responses and fewer aggressive responses. For these aggressive responses,
however, boys rated higher. This was the only obvious gender difference
in the study.
One study (Rosenberg 1984) which does offer some explanation for different
gender outcomes in research findings, points to a possible interaction
between the amount of violence the child has witnessed and the type of
behavioural adjustment shown by males and females. Rosenberg found that
when there was a relatively lower occurrence of parental violence, boys
selected aggressive coping strategies whereas girls reacted passively.
Alternatively, when there was a higher occurrence of violence, girls chose
aggressive methods for solving problems and boys became more passive.
Rosenberg hypothesises that a child's predominant method of problem solving
in interpersonal situations, which is gender-related, becomes exaggerated
following exposure to parental violence. When the violence is more extreme,
however, the children may attempt to escape or avoid the problem situations,
or even draw attention away from the parents to themselves by resorting
to more unusual and dramatic coping responses.
Adolescents
By the time children reach adolescence, their cognitive skills and resources
for adaptation have usually reached a stage of development which encompasses
both their own family dynamics and outside social networks such as peer
groups and school influences. In other words, they are becoming aware
that there are different ways of thinking, feeling and acting in the world
from those to which they have been exposed. However, the question is whether
the behavioural and social-learning processes of adolescents, who have
been exposed to domestic violence, have become so entrenched that they
find it difficult to engage in more positive ways of social interaction.
For instance Davis and Carlson (1987) concluded that growing up in a violent
family increases the likelihood of becoming an abused wife, while Hughes
and Barad (1983) found that a high incidence of violent men and their
victims have been raised in violent homes and witnessed domestic violence
as children. However, it is emphasised that not all children who have
lived with abusive relationships will repeat the experience (Rosenbaum
and O'Leary 1981).
Given the important developmental tasks associated with adolescence,
it would be expected that an ongoing stressor, such as inter-parental
conflict, would have a profound influence on adolescent development (Hetherington
and Anderson 1988). Indeed, there have been several studies which have
revealed significant relationships between inter-parental conflict and
anxiety, depression, stress, and/or hostility in adolescents. For instance,
Forsstrom-Cohen and Rosenbaum's (1985) research of those who witnessed
violence in the home, revealed that adolescent females were significantly
more depressed than their male counterparts. Additionally, adolescent
females who witnessed parental violence were significantly more depressed
and aggressive than females from non-violent homes, whereas no similar
interactions were found for males. Schwarz and Getter (1980) found support
for their hypothesis that the level of inter-parental conflict, parental
dominance, and the gender of the adolescent were predictive of severe
adolescent problems. In fact, conflict between parents in combin- ation
with a dominant opposite-sex parent was significantly predictive of major
adolescent psychopathology.
In another analysis, Widom (1989) revealed that exposure to continued
violence was the strongest predictor of violent delinquent behaviour.
Based on research with other delinquent populations, Wexler (1990) estimates
that between 20 per cent and 40 per cent of chronically violent adolescents
had witnessed extreme parental conflict. Kalmuss (1984) found that observing
aggression and violence between parents was more strongly related to future
involvement in severe marital violence than was being the victim of abuse.
Furthermore, the problem of marital violence in adulthood increased dramatically
when both types of family violence were experienced. Similarly, the study
of Miller et al. (1991) indicated that a history of witnessing domestic
violence is a very high risk factor for potential child abuse, as well
as being associated with increased psychological stress. Also, some adolescent
boys handle their frustration with the behaviour that has been most clearly
modelled for them by assaulting their mother or siblings (Straus et al.
1980).
Summary
A broad summary of the effects on children of either witnessing and/or
being victims of domestic violence is as follows. Infants are reactive
to their environment; when distressed they cry, refuse to feed or withdraw
and are particularly susceptible to emotional deprivation. They are extremely
vulnerable. Toddlers, who are beginning to develop basic attempts to relate
causes to emotional expressions, can often be seen to have behavioural
problems such as frequent illness, severe shyness, low self- esteem and
trouble in daycare as well as social problems such as hitting, biting
or being argumentative. Gender differences can emerge at this stage. By
preschool age, children believe that everything revolves around them and
is caused by them. If they witness violence or abuse, they believe they
have caused it. Some studies have shown preschool boys to have the highest
ratings for aggressive behaviour and the most serious somatic difficulties
of any age group. Primary school age children, particularly in the latter
stage, begin to learn that violence is an appropriate way of resolving
conflict in human relationships. They often have difficulties with schoolwork
and girls in this age group have been found to have the highest clinical
levels of both aggression and depression. Adolescents see the violence
as their parents' problem and they often regard the victim as being responsible.
Ongoing conflict between parents has a profound influence on adolescent
development and future adult behaviour, and can be the strongest predictor
of violent delinquency.
However, it must be emphasised that, while there is no doubt that children
who either witness and/or are victims of domestic violence are all affected
in terms of their behavioural, cognitive and emotional adjustment, the
research is still not conclusive enough to determine that there is a definitive
set response for gender, age or stage of development. The sample sizes
of some of the studies are also often not large enough to warrant firm
conclusions being drawn. The inconsistencies suggest that there are still
many more factors to be taken into account, including: the extent and
frequency of the violence; the role of the child in the family; the number
of repeated separations and moves; and economic and social disadvantage.
Children's Coping Abilities
One area which needs to be considered in more detail is the specific
coping abilities of individual older children. Researchers have begun
to investigate reasons which may account for the level of resilience shown
by some children. Following from this, a clinical and research consensus
is forming in favour of viewing this resilience as being influenced by
more than one factor (Jaffe et al. 1990). In a review of the stressors
of childhood, Garmezy (1983) found children's coping abilities could be
divided into three categories. These are: dispositional attributes of
the child (for example, ability to adjust to new situations); support
within the family system (for example, good relationship with one parent);
support figures outside the family system (for example, peers, relatives).
There is further evidence that children's coping abilities can vary as
a function of their developmental stage (Hetherington 1979). Research
with preschool children has demonstrated that disruptions in their normal
family functioning is associated with maladaptive behaviours, both in
the home and other social situations (Hess and Camara 1979; Wallerstein
and Kelly 1975). Similarly, Kurdek (1981) suggests that young children
are generally more negatively affected than older children as a result
of the dependence on their caregivers and the younger children's lack
of sufficient cognitive development to allow them to interpret surrounding
events accurately. While family disruption certainly has a negative influence
on older children's social interactions, it has been suggested (Hetherington
1979; Kurdek 1981) that they are better able to cope with the stress because
of the additional support of peers and schools.
It has also been suggested that a sense of empowerment may be useful
to some children. Rosenberg and Rossman (1990) in their research found
that children who believed they had control over their own thoughts and
behaviour during their parents' fights were less anxious and had lower
reports of delinquent behaviours. They perceived themselves more positively
in terms of their behavioural and social competence, as well as their
sense of good worth. When the same study measured control over self and
control over parents' beliefs together, children with higher control beliefs
in both areas showed fewer problem behaviours; the children who believed
they had control over their parents' thoughts and behaviour, but little
control over their own, were the most powerless. In fact, children who
held this pattern of beliefs had the highest depression scores, displayed
low adaptive functioning, and showed evidence of many behavioural problems
including aggression. However, with this model, it is important to emphasise
that children be not made to feel responsible for the violence in any
way.
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PREVENTION
Procedures to raise awareness of the effects on children who witness
and/or are victims of domestic violence are necessary so that the long
term harmful effects are ameliorated. In fact, the National Strategy for
the Prevention of Child Abuse and Neglect which has been developed for
the National Child Protection Council (Calvert 1993) is specifically concerned
with changing attitudes, beliefs and behaviours. This involves, in the
first instance, primary prevention programs such as community education
campaigns involving use of the mass media, education through the publication
of information packages, pamphlets and videos as well as school programs
for children.
To address the needs of children affected by domestic violence, school
programs would need to cater for the various child developmental stages.
For instance, the Perry Preschool Program which is now used in many areas
of the United States, is based on a preschool curriculum which emphasises
positive role models, the teaching of alternative conflict resolution
strategies and co-operative play (Schweinhart 1987). Long term follow-up
has indicated that the Perry Preschool Program participants, when compared
with a group who had not been exposed to the program, committed only half
as much juvenile delinquencyincluding only one-fifth as many acts of property
violence and half as many acts of drug abuse. In addition, they Perry
Preschool group participated more in sports and extracurricular activities
at school and had higher educational and employment earning rates (Schweinhart
et al. 1986).
Another school program, called Preventing Abuse in Relationships (PAIR)
is targeted at adolescents, and its main objectives are:
- to highlight the relevance of violence in relationships to young people
by exploration of violence in dating relationships;
- to raise awareness of the nature and extent of violence against girls
and women in relationships;
- to increase the understanding of students of the effects of domestic
violence and dating violence;
- to educate young people to be aware of the unacceptable nature of
violence and abusive actions by men/boys against women/girls with a
view to ending/preventing the prevalence of these actions;
- to encourage girls to be aware of the indicators of violence and to
take steps to prevent themselves from being at risk of this violence;
- to assist students in gaining an understanding of how stereotyped
expectations of men and women contribute to domestic violence and thus
encourage attitudes and skills that will enable them to develop non-violent,
equitable relationships;
- and to familiarise students with resources available to them, their
families and their friends (Domestic Violence Crisis Centre 1992).
A program similar to the PAIR program would also benefit older primary
school children who are at a stage in their cognitive develop- ment to
be able to confront the issues of violence in their own families and could
be built into existing personal safety programs. Children between the
ages of 8 and 12 are at a stage when intervention could be successful,
before the impact of violent role modelling has become entrenched in their
behavioural and social-learning processes.
The introduction of programs such as the PAIR Program into school curricula
would have the added benefits of targeting all children through a non-stigmatising
process. It would also help promote new attitudes against violence and
positive attitudes towards women and equality in relationships.
Secondary prevention programs, would also benefit high risk groups of
children who may or may not demonstrate symptoms, but who are known to
have witnessed violence. These could include children from refuges, as
well as those identified by police officers, family lawyers, marriage
counsellors, staff of hospital casualty services and other agencies (Menzies
1993). An important component of secondary prevention programs are home
visitor and parenting programs which have already identified at-risk populations.
By extending these to include children who witness and/or are victims
of domestic violence, more protection would be guaranteed.
Indeed, this has been recognised by the Talera Centre in Queensland which
provides a range of therapeutic, educational, accommodation and support
services for families, with the aim of increasing the possibility that
children can live in safety within their own family. Talera maintains
that effective intervention with child witnesses to domestic violence
requires a range of child, family, school and community responses. To
incorporate these multiple interventions, the following goals have been
developed.
- To empower child witnesses to disclose domestic violence and to enhance
their ability to develop safe, non-violent relationships.
- To heighten the awareness among the parents of the impact of domestic
violence on their children and to support them in developing non-violent,
nurturing relationships with their children.
- To improve the current response to the needs of child witnesses through
raising the level of knowledge and skill among human service providers.
- To encourage and facilitate the development of community responses
to the issue of children and domestic violence (Talera Centre 1993).
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CONCLUSION
Children's responses to witnessing and/or experiencing domestic violence
between parents vary considerably. No typical reactions emerge, although
there is ample evidence that exposure to domestic violence can and often
does influence children's behaviour detrimentally. However, at various
stages of their development, children are differentially able to understand
and cope with what is happening between their parents.
So that this issue receives the attention it deserves, linkages must
be made between domestic violence and child abuse. However, changes in
definitions and parameters of both child abuse and domestic violence,
as well as legislative reform, though necessary, are not sufficient to
bring about a fundamental shift in attitude by the community at large.
Real change must involve an integrated response from a wide variety of
agencies: police, lawyers, health and welfare professionals, teachers
and the community need to be informed and willing to be part of a concerted
effort to bring about such change.
However, to fully understand the extent of the effects of domestic violence
on children, there are several areas which need to be considered for future
research. First, more needs to be known about the incidence and prevalence
of child witnesses, and about the interrelationship between witnessing
violence and experiencing other forms of child abuse and neglect. Secondly,
child witnesses to domestic violence tend to be a heterogeneous population.
It is therefore necessary to further identify factors that mediate children's
reactions rather than assuming that all children will be equally affected
by witnessing violence. For instance, these variables could be child related,
such as gender, temperament or intelligence; adult related, such as identification
of individual characteristics; or family related, such as the quality
of the parent- child relationship or parenting practices, as well as determining
the intensity and length of the violence. (Ammerman and Herson 1990).
It is only by developing a broader definitional and research base for
child abuse and domestic violence issues, and placing them within the
framework of family violence generally, that we can hope to direct government
policy, with corresponding adequate resources, in a way which will ensure
a better future for children who live with inter- parental conflict.
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